Protecting your energy does not deal with just your physical or spiritual being but most importantly your emotions, relationships, and whatnot.
'oh she doesn't miss her as much...' 'you're so strong,' ' she's chilling oo'' this girl is doing the most...' You'll hear this and many more after such a tragedy but dealing with the loss on your own terms is not that easy.
...i broke lose and rushed to my sister's room thinking she'd be there but she was gone.
Yes, as an Anglican priest, he can get married. But the reaction always baffles me. I'll let you in a bit on what actually happens inside the mission house.